Naalala nyo ba yung kwento ko about a friend of mine na bibong-bibo when it comes sa internet love affair?!..yung halos lahat na minahal nya ay nakilala nya sa net and because of that twice na xang nasaktan?if not, just click this >>paulet-ulet?! … Last week bago ako mag local leave, she was too excited na ikwento sken kung anong nangyayare sa love life nya, that she was really sure na eto na ung guy na mapapangasawa niya and that their future plans were set na like when is the date of marriage, where to buy a house and lot and where to settle down for good.she even said that the guy along with his mom was on their way to meet her in person dito sa dubai (he was from london daw)..for her, it was like a dream come true, an answered prayer from God (she said), at ako din masaya sa kanya kac nakita ko sa kanya na she was really in love and very happy but at the same time i was too scared kc baka masaktan siya ulet and minsan kac scam lang yun, (papaniwalain ka at kukunin tiwala mo at hindi mo na alam nauuto ka na pala) so i told her before i leave na wag maxadong magtiwala, don’t let her emotions affect her decission (actually sermon na may kasamang pagmamahal yun) and that saka na siya magdecide about getting married pag nagkita na sila in person.. i know that time i was like an evil witch trying to stop her from reaching her dreams but it was for her own good, so after that i went home and kinalimutan ko siya saglit (ciempre enjoy ko tatlong araw na pahinga ko noh)… After three days of rest, bumalik ulet ako sa sirkulasyon, chika over here and there with her ciempre totally forgetting about ung last na usapan namin..so lumipas mga ilang araw and then one day i noticed na hindi na xa bisi sa kakachat, hindi na xa kinikilig na parang may uod sa pwet so i asked her what happen kung kumusta na yung supposed meeting-thegroom-inperson at bigla akong nalungkot (para akong nanghina) at the same time nainis when i found out the truth….the guy daw was in malaysia along with her mom (they went there first daw) tapos nahold daw sila sa immigration kac nga daw may nakita daw na malaking pera sa bag na hindi dineclare sa customs so ngayon hindi sila makaalis ng mom nya, they can be free lang daw pag nagpyansa sila ng USD 5,000.00 so hinihingian ung friend ko ng ganun halaga para makalabas na sila dun at makapunta na sila dito to meet her, (dami pang kaek-ekan)..so when she realized that it was actually a scam she stopped answering his call and all (thank God).
After what happen, her dreams of building a family with the guy was totally sunked to the highest level and her heart was once again torn apart…. Pagkatapos kong narinig ang kwento, hindi ko alam kung anong sasabihin ko, anong gagawin ko to comfort her, ang tanging nasabi ko lang was “okey lang yan, the guy wasn’t meant for you, it’s not God’s will so just wait patiently“…
In reality, falling in love is a risk at the same time a gamble, it’s like a matter of “win or lose” or di kaya a matter of choosing “life and death” (okey exaggerated ako)kac hindi lang naman oras at emosyon ang ini-invest natin, everything about us, our past,present and future, our dreams, lahat lahat na kaya minsan pag natatalo tayo it’s like 80% of our life was taken away at mahirap makabawi, mabuo ulet ung ininvest natin at pag nabuo ulet, i-reready na naman natin lahat-lahat ng atin for another gamble of love and Praise God kac by this time alam na natin kung paano laruin, we know kung ano mga dapat at hindi dapat gawin… kaso minsan dumadating pa din tayo sa punto na nauulet ang nangyari or minsan pa mas worst sa nauna and we can’t blame anyone nor ourselves kac pag-ibig yan BUT God (Praise Him) has given us wisdom para pagbulay-bulayan ang lahat and His Holy Spirit to guide and comfort us pagdating sa decission time..Mahirap, yes, but if we will trust the Lord with the help of the Holy Spirit and depend on His words we can never go wrong….
Always remember to guard our heart for it is the wellspring of life…..
tsk..tsk..tsk…
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